Although we experience peer pressure throughout our lives, it is particularly difficult to cope with during childhood and adolescence. It's not easy for a teenager to say 'No?' to drugs, alcohol, petty theft or other dangerous group activities. But you can help.
Encourage your child to mix with friends who share your family's values and standards. Once he is part of a particular peer group, he may be less influenced by others.
Don't argue over things that are superficial and harmless. If your son wants an outrageous haircut to be like the others, let him. Save your energies for more important issues.
Try to remember what you went through when you were young. Tell your child about your experiences, even if they're embarrassing.
Keep in touch with the parents of your child's friends so you can work together to set standards.
Tell your child he can use you as an excuse if he doesn't want to go along with any of the group's activities.
Remember that some circumstances, such as divorce or death, can be so stressful that your child is more susceptible to peer pressure at these times. It will help to discuss problems with him and encourage him to talk about these issues with his own friends.
